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You can study gravity forever without learning how to fly.  

 -Shawn Achor   Happiness Advantage 

If you'd like to feel inspired by commencement addresses and life lessons try: Ursula K Le Guin on literature as an operating manual for life;  Neil Gaiman on making wonderful, fabulous, brilliant mistakes; or Nassim Taleb's commencement address; or JK Rowling on the benefits of failure.  Or Charlie Munger on always inverting.

Cross fertilise. Read about theautistic mind here. On investing try a thought on stock valuations.  Or Ray Dalio on populism and risk.

Talking Trouble

An autist describes what he feels going through his head as he blurts out the wrong verbal phrase.

TROUBLE WITH TALKING

The other day, when it was time to say ‘Thank you very much’ to my helper for taking me out and bringing me safely home, the phrase that came out of my mouth was ‘Have a nice day!’ I’ve been working on these verbal set-pieces for ages and ages, but I still can’t master such simple exchanges. Talking is troublesome for me. I’d like to work through what was happening in my head when I made the mistake with my helper.

 

1) I wanted to say the correct thing to my helper. (In my head, ‘Thank you very much’ is stored in the ‘Everyday Phrases’ category.)

2) As soon as I tried to express my thanks, my mind went blank.

3) I floundered, having no idea what I needed to do next.

4) So I looked down, and saw the shoes my helper was wearing as he stood in the small entrance hall of our house …

5) … which reminded me of seeing my father’s shoes there earlier in the day in the very same place.

6) The scene of me saying ‘Have a nice day!’ to Dad flashed into my mind.

7) I remembered that I needed to say something to my helper …

8) … so I blurted out the phrase that was already in my head: ‘Have a nice day!’

 

Can you imagine a life where you’re confronted at every turn by this inability to communicate? I never know I’m saying the wrong thing until I hear myself saying it. Instantly I know I’ve slipped up, but the horse has already bolted and people are pointing out my error, or even laughing about it. Their pity, their resignation, or their sense of So he doesn’t even understand this! make me miserable. There’s nothing I can do but wallow in despondency. The best reaction to our mistakes will vary from person to person, and according to his or her age, but please remember: for people with autism, the pain of being unable to do what we’d like to is already hard to live with. Pain arising from other people’s reactions to our mistakes can break our hearts.

 

"A worthwhile existence lies in playing whatever cards life has dealt you as skilfully as you can."

 

From Naoki Higashida's book  Fall Down 7 Times Get Up 8 (trans David Mitchell & Keiko Yoshida)  giving you an insight in to the autistic mind.

 

A look at some  of the answers from his first book here including video. Some thoughts from David Mitchell and the second book to make into EnglishA few thoughts from mein the business leadership style.

 

If you'd like to feel inspired by commencement addresses and life lessons try: Ursula K Le Guin on literature as an operating manual for life;  Neil Gaiman on making wonderful, fabulous, brilliant mistakes; or Nassim Taleb's commencement address; or JK Rowling on the benefits of failure. Plus life tips from Matt Haig.

 

Quite Good.

British English subtext, another lesson.  Quite good = mediocre.  Not bad = quite good.

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"Not Bad" and "Quite Good" - these phrases in British English are particularly complex.

Take this situation.

Alice at a bar. Conversing with her girl friends. Checking out potential dates.

"She's not bad." All her English friends understands she just rated someone 7 or 8 out of 10. Her Spanish friend, Maria, thinks she just rated someone 4 or 5 / 10.

Maria asks "What about that girl in green?"

"She's.... quite good." [Note the very slight intonations or pause or speed of phrasing on the 'quite' will be immediately parsed by her English friends.]

Maria thinks green girl scored 7 /10. But, Alice scored her 5 / 10.  

 "What do you think of my dance moves?  ---  Errrr. Quite good!"  English people can sound perfectly pleasant while telling all their English friends what they are really thinking.

The same situation applies to business. If your work or someone else is described by your boss as "Quite Good" it was average or possibly even slightly below. If you boss described it as "Not Bad", "Not Bad at all", then it was good and above average piece of work.


If you'd like to feel inspired by life lessons try: Ursula K Le Guin on literature as an operating manual for life;  Neil Gaiman on making wonderful, fabulous, brilliant mistakes; or Nassim Taleb's commencement address; or JK Rowling on the benefits of failure. Or Matt Haig's life lessons

PhysicsGirl

Sabrina Gonzalez Pasterski.  Sabrina took her first cup of coffee 29 July 2017. She is a great Speed Demon player. She built and flew airplanes as a young teenager. Oh, there's also suggestions she is on the level of Einstein - though I gather she'd be one of the first to suggest she's just a "grad student"  her site at physicsgirl.com

 "...hopefully I’m known for what I do and not what I don’t do..." (on not being on social media or drinking alcohol)

By all accounts she is a gifted Physicist as well.  Go girl science! Be inspired!

 

"I was 11 when I bought 10 acres of the West Texas Spaceport for $2,000 so I could one day work for Blue Origin in West Texas. By the time I was 12: my dad had started flying and earned his private pilot's license; I had flown FAA1 w/the FAA Administrator; and helped my IA (mechanic) rebuild my Cessna 150's timed-out engine.
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At age 12, I used the serviceable spare parts from my old Cessna engine (my IA, his daughter and I had rebuilt the factory Cessna engine with mostly new parts) and other serviceable (non-red tag) parts from various vendors to build up my kit aircraft engine with Teledyne Continental Motors, Rolls-Royce, and Superior Air Parts.
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Between 12 and 14, I assembled a Zenith Zodiac standard-build airframe kit (N5886Q) and in the process put in 95% of its 15,000 rivets. About a dozen other people put in rivets, including a kindergartner, first grader and several other Edison Regional Gifted Center classmates. N5886Q's total cost, including trailer & tools, was $36,000.
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I soloed in Canada in my Cessna 150 at 13 years, 364 days and several hours old, '14-enough' as Transport Canada would say. That same day, the Jeff Bezos' letter arrived, offering to hire me, and I applied for the FAA to accept my Canadian solo certificate so I could solo in the US that year. I then enrolled in the Illinois Mathematics and Science Academy, a boarding high school. MIT notarized my airworthiness paperwork on my completed aircraft in January of 2008. The FAA MISO accepted my certification of airworthiness after an inspection and my airplane flew its maiden flight (dad) the next clear day"

Wordlessness

From Naoki Higashida's book  Fall Down 7 Times Get Up 8 (trans David Mitchell & Keiko Yoshida)  giving you an insight in to the autistic mind.

"Back in the days when I had no ways to communicate at all – no writing, pointing on my alphabet grid or verbal expression – I was extremely lonely. People who have never experienced this will go through life never knowing how soul crushing the condition of wordlessness is. If I tried to describe what it’s like to be non-verbal in the World of the Verbal in a single word, I’d choose this one: agony. And yet, this is also true: if we know there is even a single person who understands what it’s like for us, that’s solace enough to give us hope. For a long time I was tormented by the question, How come I’m the only one here who can’t talk? Why me? I often used to dream that I was able to speak. This chapter might make uncomfortable reading for those of you who live and work alongside people with non-verbal autism, but I’d like you to remember: there are lots of us, and this is what we go through. None of which is to say that people who can’t communicate should automatically be relegated to being sorry objects of pity. By living with extreme hardships day in and day out, by constantly challenging and asking questions of themselves, they search for meaning in their own lives and many of them might, eventually, access a mode of fulfilment beyond the reach of neurotypical people. A worthwhile existence lies in playing whatever cards life has dealt you as skilfully as you can."

A look at some of the answers from his first book here including video. Some thoughts from David Mitchell and more on the second book to make into English.  A few thoughts from me.